Well, I don't know how or why, but it worked. I bought a used EGR valve. I took the vacuum hose that was on it and stuck it in the last hole. Like the guy did in the pic above, only I didn't have to use two hoses.
After a 3 hour road trip this week I checked and finally got an EGR ready status...
It's not as simple as putting some resistors into the EGR harness?
I've been trying to pass emissions for 6 months now. Getting tired of driving around with no license plates. Haha