OK! So, I worked on the beast today and I have some good news and some bad news...
For starters, I had said before that I had never leaked a single drop of fluid from my car in 5,000 miles. Well, that all changed. In the last week or so, apparently my Oil Filter Sandwich plate came loose and pissed oil all over the bottom of my block and my under tray. That was a bitch to clean. But the good news is, it does not appear that I'm leaking anywhere else. Hooray!
As for the electrical issue with my lights and my fog light fuse blowing constantly, a buddy of mine who is FAR more electrically inclined than me realized that there was a short in the LED fog adapter wiring, which I didn't replace yet due to the electrical issue and planned to replace anyway, so I'm relieved that it was not my fault and fuses no longer blow. Also, since I had to take off the front bumper, I did myself a favor and replaced the front lip screws (that pull/fall out constantly) with actual bolts and nuts so it stays put. It now looks and feels much more stable.
Now on to the engine stuff...the real reason we're here. I scoped the engine, and I have some good news and some bad news. As for cylinders 1 and 4, they were pretty much spotless. No issues at all. Some carbon deposits on the pistons, but cylinder walls are in great shape and crosshatch still visible on the walls, no scoring at all. I had a bit of a scare when I saw an oddly colored stripe on the wall in cylinder #3, but I put on the 45 degree angle attachment and it turned out to be a funky reflection or something. However, the wall does appear to have some very light scoring. Not enough to be concerned about, but I'm hoping the new oil I just switched to will solve that problem. Now for the bad news...
My worst fears were correct...
Cylinder #2 -- the same cylinder I had the cracked NGK plug in -- I've always suspected to not be 100%. Upon scoping the engine, there does not appear to be any damage to the actual piston. However, there is definite scoring on the cylinder wall and there is a really funky heat flare looking discoloration on the edge of the piston right near where the wall is scored. The plug in Cylinder #2 was also fouled and completely covered in soot.
Now comes the possibly good news...
I just changed away from Rotella T6 and decided to go with a 5w30 SN Plus rated oil. I heard good things about the new Castrol Edge w/Titanium so I figured I'd give it a shot. I also put in new plugs. After making the change, I noticed IMMEDIATELY that the engine ran about 60 billion times smoother than it ever has and was noticeably quieter. There are also significantly less cabin vibes. I don't know if Cylinder #2 just wasn't firing right or whatever, but it seems to have fixed itself between the plugs and the oil change. I also compression tested all 4 cylinders and despite the scoring on Cylinder #2 it actually had the best compression out of the bunch and they were all fairly even.
Anyway, pictures below for anyone who cares, and I'll keep you guys posted.