Well... fixed it... in order to double check since mistakes happen, clearly this is a perfect example, unplugged #1 coil to make sure no corrosion in the connections. Fire up car and it's still missing so I get out to unplug coil to see if idle changes... well it was still unplugged since I had just checked for the corrison 2 minutes earlier. I plugged it in and still no change in idle. Turned the car off and thought well I'll go old school and ground plug to see visually if any spark. Put a new unused plug, leaving current spark plug in the cylinder, and ground it and nada. Grab one of the old coils and test and it got spark. Rechecked the new one and still nada. Put the old coil in and fire up car it's is idling fine. Take for test drive and that was the smoothest it ever ran.
My guess is when I first swapped the coil on #1 and #2 I put them in the same spot and didn't actually switch them giving me inaccurate info. Even though they are new this is the reason I usually keep the old parts like this that still work. Never hurts to have a spare.
Bright side is this error caused me to find the fuel issue and address it before it became an issue later from lack of fuel. Go go all zoom zoom boom.
Again thank you for all the info and and feedback!! Gonna drive it for a bit before I start messing with tunes to make sure this is not just a gremlin hibernating.
Just so strange that the #1 coil went bad and the new one in the same cylinder went bad. Don't know if there is afterlife or not but if there is maybe it's just my son's saying "hey your not done yet, don't kill my car."