Great news, we are up and running thanks to your advise.
Done some more readings and noticed on one occasion there was a error code relating to the throttle body, this was a second hand replacement of ebay as I damaged the housing for the connector on my original, the connector is in a very tighr spot and I dont think it was fully on, pushed it further on today and she started up and idled on the second attempt.
Started off ifling rather high but after a few more startups she is now running as I would expect. havent taken the RPM too high yet, theres now a engine temp sensor thats throwing an error, this will have to wait as the engine/exhaust was hot at this point and I will probably have to climb back under the car to check this now. coolant is working its way around as the hose is warm.
Really want to throw a thank you to you guys here for helping, would never of founf that ground otherwise!